Stop looking down on people…

I have been examining myself and I realize that I need to stop looking down on people. I need to love more. I need to judge less. I need to have a positive influence on society, not just with the way I vote or the things I preach. But with the way I treat people. With the way I live my every day life.

I think we’ve become great theologians, debaters, and bible reciters. But how do we act? When we say that abortion is wrong, do we look at the teenage mother with compassion? How do we treat the gay boy? Or the divorced mom? How do we treat the girl who gives herself too easily?

How do we treat each other? We see sin and then we label each other with that sin. We put name tags on people. “Divorced”, “slut”, “gay”… And we treat them as though that’s who they are. But it’s not.

They are children of God. They were created by the same God that gave us the breath of life. They were paid for by the same blood of Christ that we were. And they are loved just as much as we are.

Sometimes we forget that we once wore labels too. I was “addict”. Maybe you were “unfaithful” or “liar”. But that’s NOT who we are.

So I’ve decided to see everyone as God sees them: loved. Because the second great commandment wasn’t that I should debate for the cause, prove my theology, or recite bible verses to prove my point. It was to love one another.

We need to love more…

If you want to follow Christ then you should treat everyone with love, regardless of how they treat you.

They plotted against Him. They falsely accused Him. They abused Him, spat in His face, mocked Him. They nailed Him to a cross. And how did He respond? Did He plan revenge? Did He make them regret it? Did He make sure they suffered for every single mistake they made? Did He wish them condemnation? No. The answer is a resounding no. No, no, no.

He did what we would never do. He loved them. He forgave them. He offered them salvation with His blood as the payment for their crimes.

This is the life we are called to as Christians. We are called to love our enemies. We are called to love. When we are betrayed, mocked, abused, etc. we are called to forgive. We are called to do as Christ would. In this, they will see that we His disciples.

Sinners are welcome in our Church. Sin, however, is not invited.

Depression Support Group

I have set up a Google Groups for this so that there is a safe place to communicate and exchange information.

You have one of two options to join. You may search for the SaulsJourney Support Group at groups.google.com OR you may send me a message with your email so that I can invite you.

Anyone seeking a Christ centered support group is welcome.

However, to maintain safety I will be monitoring the membership. I ask that when you set up your membership that you make your nickname for the group your tumblr URL. If I cannot verify who you are, then I will have to deny your request for membership.

I love you all and I pray that this group will be blessed with the Holy Spirit as you love and serve each other.

Please share this information with anyone who may benefit from this support group.

Do you have the faith to not be healed?

Do you have faith that would withstand you NOT being healed? If God’s will was NOT to heal you at this time would you still trust in Him and continue in His work?

All of us are suffering with something. For some it is disease. For others, depression. Maybe addiction. Or heartache. And we ask God to heal us. And He is a healing God. But He is also an all-knowing, loving Father. And sometimes it is best for us if we are not healed immediately. In these times, He is not absent from our lives. He is ever present and here to comfort. He is healing our SOULS through our struggles. Instead of just healing our struggles.

The more I think about this topic, I wonder about what true faith looks like. I often describe faith as having three components: belief, trust, and work (action). Many of us believe. We believe that God heals and that He loves us. But when He knows BETTER than to heal us immediately, do we trust Him? Do we accept His will? Do we have the faith to not be healed?

Christ said that we are saved by our faith. But do we really have faith?

I find myself examining myself everyday. Because my faith lacks strength sometimes. I doubt God’s will. I sometimes think I know better. And in those moments I pray that God will “help mine unbelief”.

I don’t deserve forgiveness. Yet, I am forgiven. Who am I to deny that blessing to anyone else?

What if instead of wishing pain, condemnation, and vengeance on our enemies, we wished them redemption and showed them God’s love?

They will know we are Christians by our love. And if we do not show love, we are not Christians.

When you read the Gospels carefully, you notice this extraordinary gift that Jesus had. I’m not talking about physical healing per se, but more of the inner healing through a simple word, a look, a glance, a touch. Consider the celebrated scene with the little runt Zacchaeus. He’s collecting taxes for Rome from his own people, with a kickback from the take. He’s a traitor to the Jewish cause and the Jews are on to him, so they excommunicate him, a terrible penalty at the time. Basically, it meant that Zacchaeus, a lifelong Jew, could never again eat a meal in a Jewish home. He could never go to the synagogue on the Sabbath or to Jerusalem for the high feast.

One day Zacchaeus is in his shop counting his money and he hears the prophet of Nazareth is passing by. He wants to get a look, so he runs down the street. Now remember, this is Zacchaeus, the wee little man. He’s so short he can’t see over the shoulders of the taller men, so he climbs up a sycamore tree. Interesting, isn’t it? He went out on a limb for Jesus.

Jesus looks up and says “Zacchaeus, come down. I want to have supper in your house today.”

Now, when an orthodox Jew, which Jesus was, says “I want to have supper with you,” he’s saying, ‘I want to enter into friendship with you’. Everyone else in that self-righteous, judgmental, Jewish community drove deeper and deeper into isolation, deciding to put up with Zacchaeus just as he was. But Jesus looked at him and believed in what he could become, so He invited Himself to dinner.

And what happens? Zacchaeus jumps down out of the tree. Feelings that were dried up for years in his heart suddenly began to well up, boil up, convert his entire being. He begins to blubber, “Uh, Uh, I’ll give back fourfold everything I’ve stolen. And I’ll give half my goods to the poor.” Jesus’ affirming “Come down” changed the direction of the wee little man’s life.

Is there a Zacchaeus in your life? Somebody that everybody’s given up on? Judged incapable of any further good? Grandaunt, distant cousin, spouse, former spouse, in-law, member of your church, neighbor on your street, colleague at work? Someone of whom you’ve said, “I’ve been wasting my time trying to make you understand anything. You are incorrigible. Thank God, I’m quits and free of you. Don’t you ever dare to darken my door again”? You probably wouldn’t say that because that’s cruel. I don’t like to say cruel things either. They make me feel guilty and I don’t want to feel guilty. So, I play it smooth; I call it cool cordiality and polite indifference. ‘Good morning, you dork.’ In the churches across our land, we allow this garbage to masquerade as the love of Jesus.

Jesus said you are to love one another as I have loved you, a love that will possibly lead to the bloody, anguished gift of yourself; a love that forgives seventy times seven, that keeps no score of wrongdoing. Jesus said this, this love, is the one criterion, the sole norm, the standard of discipleship in the New Israel of God. He said you’re going to be identified as His disciples, not because of your church-going, Bible-toting, or song-singing. No, you’ll be identified as His by one sign only: the deep and delicate respect for one another, the cordial love impregnated with reverence for the sacred dimension of the human personality because of the mysterious substitution of Christ for the Christian.

Brennan Manning in “The Furious Longing of God”

How can you further His Kingdom when you’re so wrapped up in yours?

Seek ye first the Kingdom of God.
(Matthew 6:33)